Summary

Yes, it is definitely considered off and inappropriate for an adult man to spend leisure time at hotels watching children. This behavior violates social norms, raises ethical concerns, and severely damages personal image and trust.

Recommendation

I strongly recommend avoiding such behavior. Spending leisure time in hotels specifically watching children is categorically inappropriate, socially alarming, and ethically unacceptable. Maintain clear personal boundaries in public spaces.

Почему недопустимо (6) • Total pluses score: 27

  • It is inappropriate because observing children in hotels can be perceived as voyeuristic behavior with potentially predatory implications.
    Importance: 5/5
  • It is inappropriate because it raises strong social alarm and suspicion, damaging reputation and trust.
    Importance: 4/5
  • It is inappropriate because such behavior breaches social norms and boundaries concerning privacy and safety of minors.
    Importance: 5/5
  • It is inappropriate because it can cause discomfort or fear among families and staff witnessing the situation.
    Importance: 4/5
  • It is inappropriate because hotels are public spaces not intended for observing strangers, especially children.
    Importance: 4/5
  • It is inappropriate because psychologically this action indicates possible boundary issues or unhealthy social interest.
    Importance: 5/5

Почему допустимо (3) • Total score: 7

  • It is not necessarily inappropriate if the man is simply resting in common areas without interacting with children.
    Importance: 3/5
  • It is not inappropriate if children are present incidentally, such as near a pool or lobby where any guest may pass time.
    Importance: 2/5
  • It is not inappropriate if the observer’s intention is innocent relaxation, with no focus on children.
    Importance: 2/5