Is it worth physically punishing a child?
Why acceptable:
5 points
Why unacceptable:
27 points
Verdict:
No
Summary
Physical punishment of a child is absolutely wrong and unjustifiable. It produces long-term psychological harm, erodes trust, and encourages violence. The correct approach is care, communication, and clear boundaries without cruelty.
Recommendation
Physical punishment of a child must be completely rejected. It harms trust, emotional security, and moral development. Choose non-violent discipline strategies such as calm conversation, consistent boundaries, and positive reinforcement.
Why acceptable (3) • Total pluses score: 5
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It is acceptable because some believe it quickly stops dangerous or disobedient behavior.
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It is acceptable because past generations used it as a form of discipline.
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It is acceptable because it can momentarily assert authority when communication fails.
Why unacceptable (6) • Total score: 27
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It is unacceptable because it causes psychological trauma that can last into adulthood.
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It is unacceptable because it teaches fear, not respect, breaking trust between parent and child.
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It is unacceptable because it models violence as a legitimate way to solve problems.
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It is unacceptable because it is ineffective long-term and increases aggression and anxiety.
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It is unacceptable because international psychology and pediatric associations firmly advise against it.
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It is unacceptable because it undermines the parent’s authority through fear-based control, not trust.